Recognized Online
Welcome to Recognized Online.
If you've been single longer than you want to be, it's time for better matches.
This audio series will help you meet what my clients call, "handsome, godly husband" or "Boaz" material men.
More importantly, it will help them recognize that you are one THEY have been looikng for.
Listen slowly.
Return whenever you like.
And I’m praying that our Father will use what you learn here to guide your
steps as you wait, recognize, and marry well.
Biblical wisdom applies here too.
Imagine leaving a Facebook comment
and having a godly man notice it, look you up, pursue you,
and eventually marry you.
Imagine saying one apt thing at exactly the right moment
and watching a man stop and think:
"I could marry this girl."
Imagine meeting the kind of man you have been praying for
and recognizing what is in front of you quickly enough
not to let him pass by.
These moments can look small.
A photograph.
A comment.
A sentence.
A conversation.
But they can alter the course of a life.
Recognized by a Boaz was created to sharpen the way you see those moments.
So the value built over a lifetime becomes easier to recognize.
So you stop missing him.
And he stops missing you.
Episode One: Recognition Can Be Engineered
You are already engineering recognition. The question is whether it’s creating the outcome you want.
Recognized by a Boaz
Episode Four: The Two Moments of Recognition Required to Marry Well
First, he thinks, “I have to know her.” Then, “I could marry her.”
Episode Three: Is Waiting on the Lord for Your Boaz Keeping You Single?
Waiting on the Lord never meant waiting to apply wisdom.
Episode Six: Queen’s Pillars Needed to Recognize a Boaz
Recognition works both ways.
Episode Five: King’s Pillars: How He Recognizes His Queen
A conversation with my husband on what creates early, initial recognition for man.
Episode Two: Linda Was Recognized by Her Boaz from a Facebook Comment
One small moment of recognition became a pursuit, a relationship, and a marriage.
Episode Eight: How I Help Christian Women Marry Well
Recognition becomes personal inside Private Advisory.
Episode Seven: A Conversation with the Man You Haven't Been Able to Find
Boaz-quality men are easier to find than you think.
Initial Recognition Questions: How to Spot a Possible Boaz Early
To stop overlooking the kings of today the answer to these questions should be yes
Does his life show wise decisions that value sacrifice or status?
Does he have people in his life he loves and respects and who admire him?
Is he intentional in pursuing me, generous with his time, and caring of my heart?
Does he want to please the Lord and learn how to please me?
Am I rejecting worldliness, selfishness, or unicorn ideals in my assessment of him?
Am I rejecting desperation or scarcity in my decision to entertain a relationship with him?
Are people who genuinely love me giving me a thumbs up?
Biblical wisdom applies here too.
We readily accept that wisdom applies to money, work, family, counsel, stewardship, leadership, and consequential decisions.
Yet when it comes to choosing the person with whom you may build an entire life, Christian women can receive remarkably little beyond pray, trust God, wait.
Pray. Trust God. Wait. And apply wisdom here too.
Ultimately recognition is a practice of wisdom.
Engineering recognition is not controlling the outcome.
It's refusing to be careless with the conditions surrounding an enormously consequential decision.
That's why the phrase “pray, wait, and marry well” has weight.
The missing piece between waiting and marrying well is wisdom.
For the woman resolved
to marry well
PRIVATE ADVISORY
You have built a life of substance.
But the man meeting you does not have access to all of it.
He has a photograph.
A sentence.
A conversation.
A moment.
And from those small moments, recognition can begin or not.
I look at what you cannot easily see from inside your own life.
What is being recognized.
What is being missed.
And what is awaiting positioning so the right man can see what is truly there.
Creatively directed.
Engineered with intention.
And unmistakably refined.
Around one woman: you.
