MICHELLE JOINER
PRIVATE advisory

Pray. Wait.

Marry well.

for single Christian women ready to be recognized and loved

MICHELLE JOINER
PRIVATE Advisory

Pray. Wait.

Marry well.

for single Christian women ready to be recognized and loved

Waiting on the Lord in this area doesn't look like striving.

It looks like precision.

A client writing a Facebook comment seen by a godly man who found, pursued, and married her.

My husband telling me he loved me before we met in person.

Clients stopping men in their tracks with an apt word.

Christian dating sits at the intersection of biblical wisdom, attraction and rapidly-evolving technology.

Private Advisory brings your effectiveness to this area without the striving.

Waiting on the Lord looks like wisdom, gentleness, quietness and precision.

This is how you are recognized by the godly, high-caliber man meant for you.

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Nothing costs more than spending years being overlooked by the right men because your value is not being recognized quickly enough.

Hoping began to feet painful. I downplayed the yearning to others and to myself. When courage came to voice what I truly wanted, God led me to my heart's desires. Michelle equipped me for the journey. 

~ Sophia

Client Story

And you have been harder to recognize than you realize.

You've spent a lifetime knowing and growing your value.

What you lose cannot be regained when you do not show your value with precision in today’s culture.

The truth is modern dating reduces recognition to moments not meant to carry so much weight.

The godly, high-caliber man you want exists.
But he’s easier to miss than you think.

I didn’t think I'd find a Christian man. God used Michelle as a vessel to shift what was needed. Then I met a patient, intentional man of God I trust to lead me. I am full of joy.

~ Lena

Client Story

I’ve spent decades reverse engineering recognition.

Dating apps didn’t simply change where people meet.

They changed how quickly people decide who is worth knowing.

Whether or not you use dating apps,
they have permanently changed the dating environment you are in.

Private Advisory hones your effectiveness for a dating environment where precision matters more than effort.

A single Facebook comment...

A two-minute chat after Bible study....

A picture telling a story you can feel,...

One precise word, one precise image, can compel a man to pursue..

The more precise you become, the less effort dating requires.

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For the woman resolved
to marry well

PRIVATE ADVISORY

Imagine your life three years from now.

Not three years older.

Three years further into the life of love you actually wanted.


Now imagine three years from now, and this hasn't changed.


You can’t buy time.
But you can stop spending it.


You can bring precision to waiting on the Lord.

You can be gentle and quiet but more wise in your desire for a husband.

It is worthy of that intention.

This is the work we do inside Private Advisory.